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We do optimize a lot

We do optimize a lot on earning /saving short-term money. We should take intelligent decisions. Time Never Comes Back! Money Can Come Back Anytime Later! Some examples : 1. Don't do bad internships to earn much money. Do internships to do amazing projects, learn new skills and gain experience of working in industries. It will make you much better in the long term. 2. Don't optimize too much on buying laptops. It is an asset that will build your career the most. Do smart buying but see that you can save on other expenditures instead of holding on to the laptop. 3. Don't optimize too much on good books that will make you learn new things. If these things make your learning more than your school/ college, go ahead and do that. It would be best if you lived with no regrets.

I Studied a Great Line Today

  Talented people don't succeed. People with Good Habits do. Habits are like plants, with time they become big and strong, like a tree. This tree can give us fruits or it can be poisonous too. Now how to build Good Habits? I will share something that worked for me. - If you drink less water, put a matka in your room. - If you never make a schedule/timetable, then put a diary and pencil at all your tables. - If you learn less, put good books around you. - If you don’t track your finances, buy and put a financial app on your Main Screen. We do what we see, what comes our way. Queue —> Cravings —> Response —> Reward Water Matka (Queue) Thirst (Craving) Take a Glass of water out (Response) Feel better and you eat less food (Reward) The above 4 steps gradually build a habit. More money won’t help - Good Financial Habits will. Note: Target and build only 1-2 Good Habits at a time.

The habit stacking formula

 The habit stacking formula is: “After [CURRENT HABIT], I will [NEW HABIT].” For example: Meditation. After I pour my cup of coffee each morning, I will meditate for one minute. Exercise. After I take off my work shoes, I will immediately change into my workout clothes. Gratitude. After I sit down to dinner, I will say one thing I’m grateful for that happened today Safety. After I put on my running shoes, I will text a friend or family member where I am running and how long it will take. The key is to tie your desired behavior into something you already do each day. Once you have mastered this basic structure, you can begin to create larger stacks by chaining small habits together. This allows you to take advantage of the natural momentum that comes from one behavior leading into the next—a positive version of the Diderot Effect. 

6 Common Factors

  6 Common Factors that Motivate People in Life: Money and Rewards. Do I need to say more? Desire to be the Best. Some people just cannot accept to be number two in their lives. Helping the Others. Some people are motivated by helping others. Power and Fame. Recognition.  The Passion. “Motivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly.”

one-year goal

A secret to achieving your one-year goal:   1. Think of your 12-month goal 2. Think of the mindset that can get you there 3. Think of the content that reflects that mindset (people, books, newsletters, videos) 4. Unfollow everyone/everything and just follow them/that 5. Win! #goal #motivation #Coding #SoftwareEngineer #Mindset #CodingNinjas #Programmer

life lesson from Ma.

 This is perhaps the most wonderful life lesson I've gained from Ma.  She is one of the most sympathetic individuals I know.  Her affectability is her super force since she has a talent for knowing what the other individual may be feeling.  At whatever point there was a contention in my mind or I resented somebody, she generally used to inquire, "Woh kya soch rahe honge?"  Example:  It is similarly as critical to inquire " What will they think " all things considered to inquire "How am I feeling?"

NOTHING COMES EASY

 ' NOTHING COMES EASY ' in this world.   Everything requires exertion and devotion. We should be basically in the top 10% in whatever we are doing.  I need to add not many focuses:  1. Learning information designs and calculations aren't EASY. 90% of individuals flop in that. Like yourself, if you did that.  2. Learning web advancement and sending projects isn't EASY. 90% of individuals flop in that. Like yourself, if you did that.  3. Breaking any work/temporary position meet isn't EASY. 90% of individuals neglect to dominate in interviews. Like yourself, if you did that.  4. Breaking any aggressive test isn't EASY. 90% of individuals fall flat in many tests. Like yourself, if you did that.  Clearly, we can say that it is nearly less troublesome, however, 'NOTHING COMES EASY.'  #learning #datastructures #interview#coding#codingninjas#Competitive programming